November 30, 2015

Thanksgiving!  Lots of turkey and lots of sports.  We started out the day with our turkey bowl.  Got together with other missionaries and members and played football!  It was fun, and cold (as cold as it gets in November in Southern California).  Then moved to golf.  Our Bishop took us (he's the best Bishop) and it was really fun, even though I take baseball swings at the golf ball.  Then dinner with our Bishop and his family, which was awesome as well.  Turkey, stuffing, mashed potatoes, and pie!  Then dodgeball in our zone activity, then basketball!  Very packed day, lots to be thankful for!

Sunday night, the member who signed up for dinner dropped it off at the church, so we made a little home theater in the kitchen and watched Mormon Messages while eating our burritos (that we WARMED, not cooked, in the oven).  It was very cozy.

Our Ward Mission Leader calls us Pied Pipers because we teach crowds of kids on the steps of various apartment complexes in our area.  We had five kids at church with us on Sunday which was really fun.  At the end of the three hours of church, the youngest made the comment, "I want to stay here all week, I don't want to go home!"  It was amazing seeing them sitting reverently during Sacrament meeting in the first hour.  One of them even said it was his favorite part.  He's ten years old!  Great kids.  I got two of them white shirts and ties to wear so they look very nice in their new outfits.

One of our recent converts has been coming out with us on splits to teach our investigators.  He just "gets it."  He explains principles clearly and simply and is very invested in the work.  I'm so grateful to have been able to witness his conversion and how strong of a member he is today!

Also! The Church just put out an awesome two minute video about Christmas at https://www.mormon.org/christmas so everyone should go check it out.  It's got some pretty good production value.

trio! gotta rep the school

the whole group!

prepping the food

dinner is very serious business

ready to eat my gourmet burrito!

Picture from two weeks ago (he was about to go home)

blurry selfie of our trio walking up a hill - very exciting stuff

November 23, 2015

Transfer weeks are always fun, especially when they end in a baptism!  Angel got baptized and there was a great showing from the ward.  Lots of people there!  Everyone was being so warm to his mother even though she doesn't speak English.  Gotta get my Spanish good enough so we can just teach her.  Just kidding, we'll pass her over to the Spanish Elders.  Their Spanish is a little bit better than ours'.

We had our new companion, Elder Westenskow in the apartment now, so we have three beds lined up in our room - the pod.  It's really fun.  He got a full does of office life with all the trips we have to take to the airport and all the places we need to drive.  Early mornings, lots of training, lots of food. Transfer weeks are tiring and not very healthy.  

Elder Fischer retired from driving the big 8 seat Ford E-150 van so I did it this time.  That van is a big vehicle...  It is fun taking the outgoing missionaries to the airport because at a certain point in the ride (usually when we can see the airport or airplanes flying really low) it suddenly sinks in that they're going home.  Very bittersweet moment for them, they've been devoting all their time, energy, and strength and they're just about to go back to the "real world."  Nerve wracking for some! It was sad to see Elder Anderson go.  He was Elder Fischer's companion before I came in and is an awesome missionary.

Bringing the incoming missionaries to the mission home is fun too.  They have a bunch of crazy assumptions about Riverside and the mission.  The great thing to see is the fire they have in them.  They could go out and baptize a city with that energy.  We just hope it stays as they go throughout their two years or 18 months.

I always like to share a message about gossip to the trainers when we are training them the day the pick up their new missionaries.  A lot of people are straight out of high school so they naturally like to talk about other missionaries the same way they might have talked about people back in school.  The message we share is that "gossip robs The Atonement."  It does not allow people to change and in fact can be something that prevents people from changing.  It brings back the past even when people have moved on.  They tend to like this message a lot.

The fun part about being in a trio is we can go on TRIPS, as in triple splits.  A split is when we each go with a member to get more work done, but now we can do even MORE.  When we were teaching some of our investigators (actually the ones in the dog pictures below), I was on splits with a member who works at Disneyland.  I told the kids he works at the happiest place on earth and asked them if they knew where that was.  They promptly replied, "CHURCH!"  I laughed at that and said, "well I guess it's the second happiest place on earth... Disneyland!"

At the airport, taking Elder Anderson home (he used to take people to the airport, now it's his turn to actually go home!). We did blue, black, blue ,black (for the suits) always gotta have the patterns.

my bags are packed and ready to go. KIDDING

one of our investigators got a brand new chihuahua

my Lion King pictures took a while to get down

BAPTISM! for Angel. He's awesome. (notice the failed suit sandwich, blue, blue, grey!)

cheesecake for the outgoing missionaries.  transfer week = fat week

snagged a selfie in the office.  the iPad was just lying there!

Four square - it was cold in sunny california

action shots

with my son

 group picture

November 16, 2015

Transfers happened and we are now in a TRIO!!! Elder Fischer will be staying with me and we're getting Elder Westenskow, who is the most loving guy in the world.  We're going to have lots of fun this transfer.  It's too bad we don't have the same color suits.  There's two greys, and two blues, and two blacks, but not three of everything :(.

Unfortunately, we didn't have as many investigators at church on Sunday as we wanted.  It was the "Primary Program" so pretty much the whole first hour was little kids singing and giving small messages about Jesus Christ.  Very cute.  When they called all the children up to the front to sing and start the program, our investigator went up too.  I was really, really nervous because I didn't tell him to do that and this was his first time at church so he has never heard any of the songs before.  He was a trooper though.  I felt like a parent just looking at him and giving him HUGE smiles, and pointing at my mouth and making a smiling motion to encourage him to just smile.  He even caught on to some of the songs in the later verses and would sing along with the chorus.  Very fun.

Contacting people on the street is kind of like hunting.  You have to identify the next person you're going for, and go for it.  We got out of the car one evening, and I looked across the street and saw a family crossing the road.  So naturally I start talking to them.  I'm walking along the sidewalk forward, and then BOOM.  I walked straight into the pole of a "no parking" sign.  I was fine though, you should see the pole :).  I ended up getting their address from them to visit later, so it all worked out in the end.  Maybe they just took pity on me, or maybe they were scared of what I did to the pole...

We had a taco night with one of the families in our ward.  Two of the siblings got baptized in January, and we're working with the oldest one.  It was pretty professional, they were doing all the cooking outside so people would drive up and ask if they were selling them.  People making tacos out on their lawns and selling them is apparently is pretty normal thing here.  They were delicious though - nothing beats Mexican street tacos.

In other news, Elder Zeng is now a zone leader!  It's really exciting because now I will go on exchanges with him and visit my old area and see how my Chinese is now.

My pictures are all on a USB that another missionary has, so I only have two this week. 

Technically from last week, the p day activity

Last zone p-day activity before transfers, we played four square - flashback to elementary school days

November 9, 2015

Lots of preparation for the Mission Leadership Council that we had on Thursday of this past week.  I felt like I was in college again, dealing with all the statistics and Excel spreadsheets to do with the numbers.  It was actually a very exciting experience thinking up different ways to show the statistics in various graphs and tables and whatnot.  Trust me, it was captivating :).  We had a great time setting up action plans to help get our mission "on fire."  Lots of input from the group, which was great.  

We do a lot of street contacting in neighborhoods to find people to teach.  We try to navigate to the video "Because He Lives" (https://www.mormon.org/easter) because it is a strong multimedia message that conveys our beliefs about the Savior Jesus Christ.  We teach about Christ, testify about him, and show the video.  It's interesting to see, though, some of the contacts, where the person is so enthralled and interested, don't amount to anything.  At the invitation to listen to more of what we have to say on a later date, we are rejected.  Just the other day, I contacted this one lady.  It was great, you could really feel the Spirit.  She even started bawling when she saw the video.  But when it came time to setting up an appointment, she flat out said no.  Life of a missionary!

Elder Fischer and I seem to have started a trend among missionaries in the mission.  Lots of "matching" companionships are starting to crop up.  Obviously they can't get on our level of companionship unity, but mimicry is the greatest form of flattery right?  (But really, no one can compete with our banana costumes).  It was our ward missionary leader’s 76th birthday this past week and we got him a card and printed out a couple pictures of us.  We put in the "banana split" picture and wrote, "thank you for always coming out on SPLITS with us."  I don't think he got what we were referring to, but he thought it was hilarious.

We had a zone "blitz" on Saturday, where we go out with a whole zone and go into a companionship's area to contact people and get referrals.  It was amazing.  Elder Fischer and I were like ping pong balls bouncing around the streets talking with everyone.  The blitz was for the Spanish Elders that cover our area so we got some potential for us as well.  You should all be proud of our Spanish though.  We set up 6 appointments with various people in an hour and a half.  Gift of tongues, right?

This next week is transfers, so we will be in a lot of meetings with President Mullen to decide on changes in the mission.  Will I have a new companion next week?  We'll see!!!

I didn't have any pictures from the week so here are some throwbacks:

Incoming missionary training meeting (Elder Fischer and I matching as usual)

Incoming missionary lunch

Incoming missionary lunch

Outgoing missionary dinner

Found this gem on the mission office computers

From way back when I was companions with Elder Zeng! found this, this past week

November 2, 2015

Fun week.  We finished the last multi-zone conference, which was really exciting! They're fun to do, but it kind of gets repetitive after doing five of them!  The fun part is comparing the lunches from each one.  I think Mexican street tacos take the cake.

We were leaving an investigator’s house and saw a laughing couple across the street.  They were holding a very small baby.  So, naturally I walk across the street to talk to them.  I opened my mouth to talk, and without saying a word, the guy flipped me his middle finger and then pointed to the ground, all while ushering his wife and baby back in the house and slamming the door.  I was a bit speechless.

I brought some CTR rings over to the family that has the awesome kids but the Dad won't let them come to church.  They were SO excited and I had them explain what "CTR" means to their parents, "Choose The Right."  Hopefully that will help soften their hearts!

Our ward's trunk-or-treat had a lot of pixie sticks (sp?) so I was craving more on Halloween (the party was the night before).  Lo and behold, at an intersection, a guy who I thought was panhandling was walking down the line of cars selling PIXIE STICKS.  I get my dollar out, ready to get however many that will buy me, and he sees us, and keeps walking.  Only then did I see the "Harvest" sticker on the bucket he was holding.  Harvest is a born again Christian church in Riverside that is not a big fan of us Mormons.  It was a bummer though.

We were contacting some people that supposedly live in the ward and stumbled on this apartment with a package slip on it.  We were looking for someone with a very Mexican name and the package slip had a Chinese name on it!  No one was home, but I left a Chinese card and wrote, "Call me" (in Chinese of course).  Maybe the novelty will force him to make the call!

On Halloween night, we had to be off the streets by 6 pm, so all the missionaries in our stake met up at the stake center.  Elder Fischer and I obviously had the best costumes.  We rolled up in banana costumes, with matching everything.  There were some funny stares at intersections when people saw us.  It's crazy because it's been a year since the last Halloween on my mission (obviously...).  I was in the same building on the same day, watching the same movie (The Best Two Years) which is weird to think about.

On the way to the Halloween party - We were getting some funny reactions at intersections

BANANA COSTUMES FOR HALLOWEEN (matching as usual)

With our Bishop

Gotta get a Polaroid in there

Banana splits! 

We had a joint ward Halloween party with the Spanish ward because we share a building with them, so we took a picture with all us missionaries.  Elder Fischer and I are clearly the Spanish missionaries.  Our Español is so bien.  Also, no one gave me the memo that we were "smoldering" for the camera. so I'm just smiling like a fool.

October 26, 2015

Busy week that ended with Joseph's baptism.  He is incredible!  He called us up four weeks ago while we were in transfer meetings and said he had been talking to Mormon.org missionaries online and wanted to see if this is something he wanted to do.  On the second lesson he had already read 140 pages of the Book of Mormon.  He has the best questions too!  I'm so grateful to have been able to participate in his teaching process.  It's been amazing!  He was really nervous for the baptism and said he was about to faint during the talk right before he actually went into the water.  We waiting on the side for a couple seconds, then he said he just felt an overwhelming calm and it was all okay.

It was interesting.  Joseph brought a friend who is a staunch atheist to the baptism, and to church earlier that day.  He was bagging on religion, organized religion, the existence of God, EVERYTHING.  He needs to see God to believe Him.  So in the end, after answering many, many questions, I just said you know what, just read the Book of Mormon then... He surprisingly agreed but said he wouldn't pray to see if it was true.  I told him, you use the scientific method to prove stuff in science right?  So you have to pray to prove stuff with spirituality.  He said he still wouldn't pray.  I told him what he's saying is the same as him saying he wants to see bacteria but won't look through the microscope.  Well you can read about bacteria all day, but if you don't look through a microscope, you won't see them (unless they're really big... then you don't need a microscope).  His response to that was, "you use too many analogies."

We had more multi-zones this week and gave the same trainings.  It's funny because we give the same presentation five times to different groups in the mission, so it's like Groundhog Day!  We had our one for our zone, La Sierra, so we finally got to hear the vehicle presentation (there are vehicle inspections every multi-zone, but we've been skipping out on it).  Elder Puskas, the vehicle coordinator, did a small presentation on blind spots.  I guess the Chinese mentality of only look forward and don't worry about anything behind you, doesn't fly here.

We had another scare when we were picking up dinner Saturday night.  We pulled up to the street only to see this big dog standing in the middle of the road.  It seriously looked like a coyote-wolf-dog.  That's a thing now.  It came and stood in front of our car and wouldn't move until we honked the horn and crept forward.  So we end up in the driveway of the members sitting in the car debating what we would do.  We would open the door a hair, and it would come over slowly.  Finally, the member came out.  She said we don't have to worry about the dog and gave us our food.  Still not trusting the dog, Elder Fischer stayed in the car as we backed out of the driveway - that thing was SCARY okay!  

We met with an 84 year old investigator with cataracts in his eye.  He loved what we had to discuss with him about Jesus.  He said, "I'm all about Jesus in the morning, in the evening, and in the night."  When we got up to go, the Elder I was on exchanges with offered to help him and reached out his hand.  The investigator popped up out of his chair faster than we imagined!  He said he might be 83, but he can still stand up!

I was in Lake Elsinore on exchanges in a more rough area, and we were walking to a lesson after dark.  Some guy asks us if we're okay and says we shouldn't be walking around that late.  We made it safely to the lesson though!  He wasn't a member, but a lot of members get really scared in some of the areas we go to.  Some of them told the sisters in our ward that we shouldn't go to "Gould Street."  Gould Street is where some of our best investigators are! I'm being safe and everything, but the name tag makes me feel a lot safer.  I was thinking about it, and I probably wouldn't be walking in some of the neighborhoods at 8 pm by myself.  No reason to be there!  But as a missionary, it's fine. 

In one of the places, we contacted these two guys sitting in their car with the windows rolled down.  They were higher than kites.  It just stank - so much weed.  But they said if we came back we could talk to them, as they were just giggling to themselves - it was honestly pretty funny to watch.  I told them to say hi when we came back, but just stay high for now.

 Joseph's baptism!!!

zone conferences with our "home zone," La Sierra

Fixing Elder Foy's tie, still have that comp unity!

getting a rundown on blindspots

Find me!

group in the mission office - serious, then SMILING! whenever Elder Puskas pulls out his iPad, we gotta get in the picture!

the office is making me fat

 stealing the iPad's always fun

too scared to get out of the car - the dog was obviously hungry for some Elder Dyer and Elder Fischer.  I hear missionaries taste good.

find me!

throwback pictures that we found on one of the office senior missionary's iPad

 messing around in the office

this past transfer's outgoing

October 19, 2015

Multi-zone conferences this week so really busy.  I'm still recovering from my little incoming missionary bug and it's weird because it's throwing my hearing off its game.  I feel so out of the conversations I have, so now I know what it's like to get old right?  We've been training a lot on contacting people.  We're trying to help the missionaries understand that contacting is FUN! You get to talk to random people on the street!  What more could you ask for?  Some people get kind of worried about being awkward in the contact, but let's face it, we're missionaries not pest control salesmen, you just have to get over it!

I had a great conversation with this Mexican guy who was drunk.  Poquito English! :) but my Español was sufficient.  We showed him the video "Because He Lives" about Jesus Christ and he was just ooh-ing and ah-ing, he loved it so much.  I asked him where he lived so I could send the Spanish missionaries over (as good as my Spanish is, he needs the professionals) only to find out that his home was over by a bunch of bags.  He's homeless and was pretty intoxicated, but who knows, maybe down the road he'll find a way into the Church.  They're the people who need it most.

Speaking of languages, I gave a Chinese baptismal interview for the Chinese Elders the other day.  It was weird to speak in Chinese again.  I was a little rusty but it went over fine, the investigator understood me!  The interview took me back to the UCR campus at the institute there.  It was cool to see some recent converts and be back on that campus where I had such a great time!

We have this amazing investigator right now who had previously spoke to Mormon.org missionaries online.  We had an awesome lesson with him about the Atonement and about Jesus Christ's sacrifice for us.  He really connected with the fact that Jesus felt everything and therefore has perfect empathy for us.  He felt it and is loving church.

On the downside, three of our investigators that are kids are being held back by their dad.  He just won't let them come to church!  It's like he thinks we kidnap people's kids.  He's perfectly fine with us coming over and teaching them.  They love it, and have even changed in the time we've spent with them, but unfortunately father knows best right?  It's so sad because every time we go over the kids are teaching their family members how to pray and answering all the questions perfectly.  Hopefully something softens his heart!

We had a surprise visit at one of our dinners from three missionaries that had previously served in the mission.  One of them was Elder Johansen!  Well, he's Christian now (that's his name).  They were staying at my Bishop's house and we were having dinner there.  It was nice to see them!  On Sunday, they helped with some of our investigators that showed up to church which was cool.  Elder Fischer and I were busy up on the stand singing with the men's choir (they needed voices).

Elder Johansen visited!!!

Throwbacks to Corona because I have no pictures this week:

With Khai, one of our investigators, showing him that my planner beats his phone any day

Corona Zone Conferences from August